Mom and Dad Scott

Mom and Dad Scott
Fall Trip to New England

Monday, January 31, 2011

Here in Cali

I'm so delighted tonight.  I used to roll my eyes when conversations with my father lasted longer than 30 minutes (since we all know he likes to talk!)  Right now I just don't want it to end and I'm cherishing it forever.  I actually got my video camera out to film him talk and he liked the idea...and is still going....and going.  The day his voice isn't here will sure be felt.

27 comments:

  1. please post your comments below if you have any.

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  2. I love my Dad! A loving father, grandfather of 9, coach, # 1 fan, and friend. He was always there when I needed advice or to have someone to talk too. He is an example to me in so many ways and Im proud to call him my dad. He will always be remembered. I love you dad.

    Brian Scott

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  3. I think to know Jim is to love him! He is one of the most genuinely nice and helpful people I have ever met. He is always thinking of others with little or no concern for himself and is able to be friends with anyone and everyone! He is nonjudgmental and always has good advice. He is adored by his grandchildren and I hope they will always be able to remember how awesome he is! I love how he acts silly and goofy just to bring a smile to their faces! Although we always teased him for taking lots of pictures I definitely appreciate all of the irreplaceable memories that he captured! Jim inspires me to live my life with more compassion for others and not to judge. I know that he has touched many lives and I'm thankful to call him family. We love you Jim!

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  4. 6 and unders, swim team...
    Soccer (Dad), Swim (Dad), volleyball (Dad)...longs talks about em all, always a fan. Brian, Mark, Jen's #1 fan. Sleep overs, piling in the White Ford(?)/Van late night to go TP'ing,"Ooo Ooo",...waking up at dawn (yawn), Jim helping to deliver papers the next day. Cards, hearts, the man to beat (I'm still gunning for the title Jim;-). The video camera, enough said :-). Donner lake. Trampoline. Otter pops. College Park, the Teen age years, getting into trouble (sorry :-) ). The Jim laugh, the Jim smile, easy going and always there for his kids Jim. Been a long time since 6 and unders, thank you for some of my favorite memories. Love you Jim.

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  5. Jennifer, I have nothing but wonderful memories of your dad. The camping trips, Christmas parties, the 4th of July and the videos. Always a smile on his face and love in his heart that is evident in his great kids. The camera, thanks god for that, the only video i have of my mom and grandma is from moments Jim captured. Thank you Jim!
    All our love to you all.
    -Mindy

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  6. Niffer Scott and Family -
    I was just looking on FB to see what was up with everyone and I came across a blog that Jen had created. As I was reading I find it very difficult to hold back the tears to find out Jim is sick. I wish nothing more than to be there and have a nice talk with Mr. Jim Scott, (even if he would be doing most of the talking and providing me with advice or having a soccer story to tell.) I have known the family ever since I was a little girl playing soccer with niffer. Jim is such a wonderful easy going man and such a delight to be around. He was always involved with jen's sports with a camera close by. It has been very many years since I have seen Jim but I am sure he was out and about still very involved in his children's and grandchildren's life's. Thank you Jim for being such a fantastic man and always there with open arms. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Love always,
    Monique Melara

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  7. One of our first introductions to Jim was when he brought us a CD of pictures of our house during its construction. It was a sweet surprise and, as we were to learn through the years, characteristic of his thoughtfulness.

    Jim has been a wonderful neighbor - very friendly and kind. We have engaged in many long conversations and I have to smile when I think of the expression - often used by Jim- "to make a long story short". He had a hard time doing that, but like Jen says, we will soon miss that voice and all the wisdom he has freely shared with us.

    I have been impressed with just how solicitous Jim has been throughout his wife's cancer treatments. Whenever he has brought her to the Family HIstory Center or even just walked with her to get in our car, it has been very evident that he loves and cares about her deeply. He has been a great example to us.

    We love you Jim. Sharlene and Brent

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  8. Jim I have known you for so long, I can't remember not knowing you. I probably spent more time at your house than my own growing up! Maybe you guys should have claimed me on your taxes! Ha ha. So many memories. I can recall going to soccer games, in the back of the white car, that didn't need a key to start! You would be so excited before and after the games talking to Brian and I about a gameplan, or recapping a win, you would be driving turned around most of the time talking to us in the backseat, ha ha. You were always there, and so involved in my life too, always supportive and had great advice. I bet you have the video to prove it too. You would always have the video camera handy it seems, so much you had to put a piece of electrical tape over the red light to make us kids think you weren't recording, you weren't fooling us :) We would always tease you about that, but later watching those home videos, with you narrarating, ohh, they are priceless. It is always great peeking back into the gold ol days, thanks for all the memories. Such a great dad. A fun guy also, I remember how excited I would be when Brian would call me up, and say better get up here, were playing hearts. It was a short trip up the hill for a great time. You always had a way of making small games much more competitive by keeping records, giving us nick names etc. I think we made a few tapes when Brian was on his mission too of some games that have gone down in history, the good ol days. I feel like you guys are all a part of my extended family and love you all, Marian, Jim, Brian, Mark, and Jennifer I wish you guys the best. Oh and I think I should mention Snooper too. Remember the night we were driving home from a swim meet or something, and we were by the Rileys house, somebody said, "hey that dog looks like snooper!" Little did we know that was him! I'm sorry but that still cracks me up!

    Take care,

    Bobby Dial

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  9. I signed that first one wrong, it should have been... "Bob the mooch!" as Brian would say.

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  10. Dear Brother Scott,

    What a pleasure it has been to known you! You have always been so kind and welcoming to us. Our children often ask us if we are related. They feel so loved and comfortable at your home. I really respect your devotion and dedication to your family. You are truly a great Grandpa! We have enjoyed our conversations, Santa Parties, and summer days at Brian's and Mark's backyards. We were so glad you were able to attend the Tabernacle Christmas concert with us this year. We love your family and feel privileged to associate with you and each of them. May the Lord bless you and comfort all of you during this difficult time. You are in our prayers and thoughts. Love, Sandra and Eric Miller

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  11. Jim, I can't pass up a chance to say thank you for everything you are to our family. As it hits me how much we will all be suddenly losing, I find myself drawn back to the man that you are and the great example of humility, service and love that you provided your whole life. Yes, we are losing a great friend, but we are all so lucky to have had the chance to spend time with you. You are far more than just long winded stories, Costco runs and pictures. It isn't too often that you find someone that truly cares about others like you do. You have always put yourself last. All of us know that you would do ANYTHING for us. You have done countless acts of service for me and I want you to know that I am grateful, and I love you for it. I have nothing but good memories of you and that will be passed on to our kids. I am in awe of the life you have lived and the good attitude you have unceasingly had. My prayer is that we will all continue to have your optimism and look on life. Thank you again for who you are and the example you set.
    I love you,
    Brenton

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  12. I have so much to say about Jim, he has done so much for me and I will forever be indebted to him and his wife for their generosity, love and constant support.

    One of the first times that I realized I was part of the family was when I went with Jen and Brenton to visit Jim and Marian at their Pleasant Hill home. At that point I think I had been living with Jen for almost a year and we were close but it going into home I had never before seen and feeling like I was walking into my home surrounded by people who loved me was a whole new experience for me. That whole trip, they treated me like a daughter and it has been that way for the last 6 years.

    Not only did they let me live with them, but they encouraged me in every step of my education (or dating, depending on the day). I don't know how many times I came home to find a little note from Jim with a message for me, or how many times he would come say "I'm going to walmart/costco, do you need anything?" Although he should have, he rarely asked me for anything and he always took a minute to share a little bit of wisdom.

    It was great to see how much he loved to know about other people's accomplishments and he loved to share them. Jen almost picked up this same trait but somehow it got twisted a little because she loved to share truly embarrassing details... I'm glad that stopped.

    Many people have unknowingly become famous though Jim's stories. I often heard about his friend Jim who went to medical school and went on to practice in rural america. Similar to their neighbor Randall's son who was studying at the Mayo clinic. I often heard about the ski club and some of the good friends they met through it. He did a great job of keeping up to date on the real estate market, and he did a decent job keeping up with his accounting background (although I think his wife would maybe say he merely had good intentions when it came to getting their taxes filed on time.)

    I have never met someone more organized when it came to recording and organizing every phone call or interaction with a company. Everything is perfectly organized with his handwritten comments.

    I nearly forgot to include one of the biggest memories I have of Jim. The constant babysitter. What kid wouldn't love to be around a guy who is constantly happy and buys a neverending supply of costco cookies? His grandkids definitely take full advantage of his generosity. I know that he didn't want to spoil any of them, but it is just in his nature to give them as much time and attention as he possibly could. If he was in town, I could pretty much guarantee that within 24 hours he would be on babysitting duty. I'm pretty sure the only shows he ever watched or recorded were political commentary shows or cartoons for the grandkids.

    I really could go on and on, but "to make a long story short" Jim is an amazing man with a wonderful attitude and personality that will live on in different ways in Brian, Mark and Jennifer. I hope I will see him again, but if not, I hope he realizes how much he has touched my life and how grateful I am for all of his support, kindness and friendship.

    Love,

    Tyna-Minet

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  13. Jen is my most favorite daughter-in-law in the whole wide world, and her family feels like my own. Oh how I've loved the get-togethers at the Scott's home. Game nights, barbeques, croquet, birthday parties, you name it - it's always a good time! The first time I got to meet Jim was just a month or two before Jen and Brenton's wedding. Jim and I wanted to have lunch together so that we would have a chance to "size up the in-laws". What normally would have been an awkward or uncomfortable event turned out to be the most natural thing in the world. We hit it off great, and from that moment on I've felt like the Scott's and the King's were one family. I attribute this unusual union to Jim. He is one of the most generous, kind, happy, good natured individuals I have ever met. I love you Jim. Thank you for sharing your family with us!

    Love,

    Cliff King

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  14. Awesome memories of all the get togethers with the Scott family. Jim, when I think about you many things come to my mind. A happy positive disposition always. You can put a smile on anyone's face. I have enjoyed all your stories about Jen and your experiences as a family. Another word is supportive. All the coaching and games that you have gone to and you have it all on film to prove it. You even attended Alisha's games too. Friend is another word. I have enjoyed your friendship. I knew if ever I needed help you would be there. Generosity, all the people you have helped out and all the meals that you have fed everyone. Photographer. We have great pictures that you have taken that can never be replaced. Thank you for sharing your talents with us. Grandpa. I think you are like the pied piper that the children follow around. Your love of children is apparent when we come over and they all want to sit on your lap, they all love you. Thank you for all your support that you give my son Brenton, you have helped him to become who he is and you have taught him so much. Thank you for raising such wonderful children and especially such a wonderful daughter that we are so lucky to have as our daughter in law. She is someone very special and that is because of her wonderful parents. You have taught her well because she is a great mom.
    Cliff and I love to get together with your family for games, meals, and fun. We feel that your family is our family. Thank you for including us in so much.
    I will never forget the night you shot the moon 2 times on Brian in the hearts tournament.
    Shoot the moon Jim.
    Love you,
    Tondi King

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  15. This is a very special time. Take the time to think about all the questions, experiences, and love expressions you can. Saturday my daughter was sealed to her husband and children. After the ceremony I ran into a friend of mine working in the temple and we began to reminisce about both of our fathers' passing in 2010. He talked about questions he had wanted to ask his father and get his take on it. So he began reading everything his father (a LDS general authority) had written and found all the answers he was seeking. Records of our spiritual experiences are priceless to all. May the Lord bless you with that warmth of love and gratitude as your family surround you. Our prayers are with you and yours.
    Kip and Loren Buckner

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  16. I wanted to pass this along, not sure how it got emailed to me......

    Hello Jim, Wow, we are so gratful to have had a few minutes to spend with you as we were passing through S/L December 28th. Your home was decorated so beautiful and everyone had a smile. Our hearts are full of love for you. We have admired you for all you have done for Brenton and Jennifer and kids, you are such a kind giving person. We have loved having you and your family at our Idaho home and we loved staying at your home. We will always remember your family at the cabin and all the fun photos. I loved showing you how to use iphoto on the Mac. You are a dear dear friend and our love and respect are with you and your family. God Bless You as you go though a difficult time, have faith that this is not the end but the beginning of a whole new adventure. Love, Wayne and Connie Greene

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  17. Ever since Brenton and Jen got married I have felt like the Scott family was part of my family as well. All the Christmas parties, hearts tournaments, croquet tournaments, cabin trips etc, felt like I was going with my uncle Jim and aunt Marian and the kids were my cousins. I attribute this to Jim because from day one he has made me feel like family. He always knows and checks up on what's going on in my life and will give his appreciated advice and stories. It's interesting that some of the best advice I received before going on my mission came from him when he said "make sure to always me true to who you are, there are people there that need your personality." I think that Jim definitely took his own advice as he is always true to what made him him: his unfailing optimism, big smile, willingness to serve, and role as a picture taker. I have a picture from my wedding where he is laughing and holding a camera in ready position, I remember smiling when I first saw it because it couldn't be a more accurate portrayal of who he is(maybe more accurate if he had a grandkid sitting on his lap).
    I forgot one other thing that makes Jim Jim and that is Costco. I remember passing by him and saying hello one day around Christmas as he was mesmerized by these 5ft tall stocking. I continued on and did all my shopping and as I was going by that same isle some 30 min later he was still there trying to decide on the stockings! I said he should go for it since it was a good price and I noticed that that Christmas each of the kids got a life size stocking :)
    I am so grateful for all the warm receptions I got every time I knocked on the door and more especially for the little path that he always quietly shoveled in the snow for me to my car when I left.
    -Shanna

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  18. Jim, such a short time ago we had a sweet opportunity to meet again with you and your dear wife, Marion. Our visits were always very special.
    Darold was deeply touched when you allowed him to fix the little antique rocking chair that is so cherished by your family. He felt a great sense of trust when you gave him the care of that treasure.
    Your response of satisfaction and gratitude for the expert workmanship in restoring it to its original condition was more than payment for him.
    We will continue to serve and support your dear family. It is our privilege to continue being a source of help whenever it is needed.
    Our Love and Prayers go with you throughout these days. How grateful we are to a Loving Father who knows us, and gives us the strength to meet our greatest challenges.
    Be safe in the circle of your Loving Family, and in the knowledge of the many friends who surround you with their added Love and support.
    Our hearts are tender knowing how much we will miss your sweet presence and loving spirit. You have blessed our lives with your kindnesses and thoughtful generosity.
    Darold and Pam Francis

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  19. Jim, it brings back so many fond memories I had growing up from reading these comments. I can't remember a time where I didn't have you as my soccer coach, playing alongside Brian all those years (you were always my #1 coach). Those hearts tournaments we would have, always providing helpful hints on how to move onto the winner's table. That, and reminding us that Brian loves to play loose with his slight of hands (you know what I'm talking about Brian. :)
    Jim, I may not have mentioned it as well or as much as I could since moving away from Pleasant Hill, but to this day, you have left a lasting memory of your kindness and laughter which I will never forget.
    One of my fondest memories of Jim was riding in the back seat of the infamous white car with Brian, coming home on that windy road from Campolindo HS after a soccer game. Jim proceeded to dissect the game, with precision (granted this game just finished less than 30min ago) to Brian and I. I should mentioned though, Jim was talking to us facing the back of the car, with both hands reenacting the game (no hands on the wheel). I remember closing my eyes and when I opened them, we were at the house...Brian was white as a ghost. I knew I never had to worry with Jim, but to this day, I have no idea how we made it home.
    Marian,Jim, Brian, Mark and Jennifer, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    ==
    Patrick Schmidt

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  20. Jim, I am totally shocked to hear of your condition! I am in Michigan for my grandson's baptism and my granddaughter's birth. The birth was by C-section and went very well! My new granddaughter is beautiful! It wasn't long ago, just last month that I saw you at the empty nesters FHE at the Barlows. You looked just fine. I always enjoyed seeing you in the neighborhood. You always took such good care of your yard and home. Thank you for being such a great neighbor!
    Love ya, Sharon and Gary Wiest

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  21. Many memories go through my mind at this time. We go back many, many years long before Jennifer was born, our involvement at the pool and many years of watching our kids swim - what fun that was! You were so kind to involve JP Grenz (our exchange student from Denmark) and take him to soccer games. You have always had a smile and a friendly hello to everyone you meet - I have always admired that quality in you. You and your family are in my prayers and I want you to know that Marian has been a good friend to me as well - thank you for sharing her with our little "ya ya group". love, nancy

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  22. Dear Jim,

    I remember playing volleyball in high school with Jennifer. She was so good! My parents had a hard time making it to all the games, but you were always there in the stands! I knew you were cheering for all of us as much as you were cheering for Jen. Sometimes I felt like you were representing my parents too as you cheered in the crowd. It was obvious that you were proud of the team and your video recordings of the games are the only media memory I have of playing volleyball in high school. Thank you for capturing that for us!

    I remember that you always had a cheerful smile on your face. You brightened up a room and always had something nice to say.

    I remember that my dad thought very highly of you. He loved your conversations (my dad was a talker too). I believe he thought you were deep, insightful, enjoyable, and kind. He respected you. You were always willing to help anybody with anything. I think my dad felt comfortable around you because you did not judge as others do. I am so sorry to hear of your illness. I can’t help but think that my dad is part of your welcoming committee on the other side! No doubt he has told others of what a great man you are. You both are great men that served your families in a way that will be long remembered.

    My prayers and thoughts are with all the Scott family.

    Bethany Clawson (Cory)

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  23. Jim,

    I enjoyed getting to talk with you for a few minutes the other day, you have always been a great conversationalist, and always someone everyone felt comfortable talking with. And I enjoyed reliving memories of my dad with you as well, I learned a few things I didn’t even know about him! You will have good company on the other side in him, that’s for sure!

    I have fond memories of Jen’s sleepovers and of course the yummy Costco goodies we looked forward to ; ) You were always so welcoming in opening your home to all of us and always had a smile on your face. Even the other day, I couldn’t help but admire you for your strength and courage and even your smiling face in the midst of this tough time. You are just a happy and peaceful person to be around and I’ve always admired and appreciated that in you. You and your family are in my thoughts . . .

    Sarah Clawson Curtis

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  24. Jim, I have so many fond memories of being with you at College Park Band and Swim Team events. You always had a camera or video recorder with you ready to document the marching band competition, band concert or swim meet. We had a lot of laughs and smiles at those times as we discussed our kids and what was going on in there lives. I have always enjoyed the time I have spent with you and I am glad to know you as a friend. You and Marion have raised a wonderful family and I am glad I have the opportunity to know all of you.

    Jennifer, Mark, and Brian thank you for putting this together and giving us the chance share with your family. My thoughts and prayers are with the Scott family. May God bless all of you.

    Mark Malin

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  25. I don't know if I'm too late for this... I want to add my sentiments. My first encounters with Jim were only and always with his family. He took so many wonderful pictures of me and my husband. He even took a movie for us at our wedding when we didn't even think to do that! He made sure we remembered every moment. He was/is always cheerful and happy for everyone and everything.
    Jim, you have much to be proud for. Your children have grown to love life and love others and to be sensitive to others' needs, and to be charitable and kind. We should all be so blessed with a wonderful family. Isn't that what life is all about anyway..? Having a family and being able to teach them all that you know and love, and then hope they have more than you ever did..? I love spending time with your family, Jim. I love seeing Marian, the way she smiles back at life and the way she oogles on about her grandchildren. She makes awesome cookies btw, and that's coming from a fellow baker! We all went to Muir Beach, and I'll never forget that trip.. it was the first time I'd really gotten to know Mark and Rebecca. And thus continues a legacy of friendship that only continues to blossom. You're a part of us. Your family is a part of us. More than you could ever realize. What you've done with life is admirable. You'll always be a smiling dad to me, a person who's heart is always full, a husband and father who'll always be surrounded by those who only magnify that love. Thank you for being a part of my life.
    Sincerely,
    Allysa
    ps. i know the above isn't much, but at the very least I want you to know that you are in my prayers and in our hearts.

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  26. When Mark and I were first dating, I felt a great desire to meet you. Upon meeting you, all of the wonderful things that I had heard about you were confirmed. You are an amazing person, and I am grateful for the many ways that you touch my life. There are the obvious things like the pictures, memories, and help with our children. My children are lucky to have a grandpa who would go to the moon and back for them. Their love for you is immeasurable. You have touched my life in other less obvious, but very significant ways. So many of the qualities I love in Mark he learned from you especially how to love people. Mark is a terrific father, who cares deeply for his children. He learned how to play with and make his children a priority from you. Most personally, he learned how to love and care for a wife by watching your tireless concern for Marian. These are just a few of the ways you bless my life. Stay optimistic. I love you, Jim!

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  27. Dear Jim,

    I'm so sorry to hear of your illness...but SO not surprised to hear you are still smiling. I always loved visiting Jen and being in your home...I felt very welcomed and cared for. I remember the constant presence of a video camera. It was like it was glued to your hand! :) I know Jennifer always felt so loved and supported...and I too always felt good knowing you were there. Peace be with you....you are loved!

    Heidi (Wiersma) Stoltz

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